
Marcus McLaurin (age 7) made the mistake of talking about his non-traditional family at his Lafayette, Louisiana school. He was waiting in line to go to recess on November 11 at Ernest Gallet Elementary School when a classmate asked him about his mother and father. He responded that he didn't have a mother and father; instead he has two mothers. When the other child asked why, Marcus told him that it was because his mother is gay. The other child then asked what that meant, and Marcus explained, "Gay is when a girl likes another girl."
Upon hearing this, Marcus's teacher scolded him in front of his classmates, telling him that "gay" is a bad word and he should never say it at school, then sent him to the principal's office instead of letting him go to recess. The following week the school required Marcus to attend a special behavioral clinic at 6:45 in the morning, where he was forced to repeatedly write "I will never use the word 'gay' in school again."
"To tell a 7-year-old boy that he can't talk about his family not only makes that child feel confused and hurt--it violates his Constitutional right to free speech and equal treatment," said ACLU attorney.
"I was concerned when the assistant principal called and told me my son had said a word so bad that he didn't want to repeat it over the phone," said Sharon Huff, the second-grader's mother. She added, "But that was nothing compared to the shock I felt when my little boy came home and told me that his teacher had told him his family is a dirty word. No child should ever hear that, especially not from a teacher he trusted and respected."
In addition to being reprimanded and forced to come to school at 6:45 a.m., he also had to write an essay about how he had Sed Bad Wurds (I hope that was his spelling and not his teacher's). You can read all about it on the ACLU site.
Ironically, this month's issue of Vanity Fair is all about TV's Gay Heat Wave. Mainstream television (which is, of course, produced primarily on the urban coasts) is presenting a world of greater tolerance and diversity. The backlash in the heartland seems particularly rigorous in the wake of the recent judicial rulings in Massachusetts. Hopefully, this is just that thing where the pendulum has to swing WIDE both ways to find the middle ground.
"Laws alone can not secure freedom of expression; in order that every man present his views without penalty there must be spirit of tolerance in the entire population."
Albert Einstein
(1879 - 1955)
Scientist, Inventor, Genius
"The highest result of education is tolerance."
Helen Keller(1880 - 1968)
U.S. Educator