5. His first film, the incest comedy "Spanking the Monkey," was inspired by a disgusting daydream he had. "I had this disgusting daydream based on the summer my mother got into a car crash. My mother would slap me in the face for making up that daydream. And I said, 'that is just filthy. I'm going to write that daydream just for me.' I was so angry, I had broken up with a girlfriend, I was broke, my friends had cars, marriages and children. I was the guy at weddings who was asked, 'how's that writing thing going? How's that working out?' But I said, 'this thing is fucking good because it was emotional and intense and it came from a place I would never make a movie... It was messed up, and that's what made it a good movie.'" ["Spanking the Monkey" went on to win two Indie Spirit Awards in 1995.]
6. Russell wrote a script for Dolly Parton. After "Spanking the Monkey" (1994), Russell got an agent, and Dolly Parton hired him to write a script. She had a company called Sanddollar. After the Sundance premiere of "Monkey," Russell couldn't get the script financed.
7. Russell says that "strong women are the secret to great cinema."
8. Between "Flirting with Disaster" (1996) and "Three Kings" (1999), Russell originally intended to make a film about the turn-of-the-century oil industry, a la "There Will Be Blood." Alas, his son was developing bipolar syndrome, which contributed, along with a divorce, to his much publicized meltdown during the filming of "I Heart Huckabees."
9. He still does not want to talk about the time between "I Heart Huckabees" and "The Fighter." While Durling poked and prodded Russell about the time between these two films -- when his life was falling apart -- the director nervously asked, "Isn't it time for a clip?" Russell infamously dueled with star Lily Tomlin on the set of "Huckabees." A few years prior, on the set of "Three Kings," the obstreperous Russell headbutted George Clooney, who in turn tried to choke him, as alleged in Sharon Waxman's "Rebels on the Backlot."
He's now a calmer and wiser man--and a superb filmmaker who is challenging Scorsese for the best director Oscar.