That has spawned mass conversations about censorship, comedy and rape culture--but in many cases, especially as West points out, these conversations reinforce the point she is making. Much of this debate stemmed from last year when comedian Daniel Tosh told rape joke after rape joke, and a female audience member called him out on it saying that "rape jokes aren't funny." Tosh's ridiculous response was that the woman should get gang raped by members of the audience. He later apologized, but it showed the pervasiveness of rape culture.
Comedian Patton Oswalt, who admitted to defending Tosh at first, wrote a wonderful essay about comedy focusing on thievery, heckling and rape jokes. The whole thing is an important read.
But we want to pay special attention to the points Oswalt makes about rape culture and his own changing viewpoint on rape jokes. This is a great look at shifting perspectives and owning up when you realize you were wrong.
And let's go back even further. I've never wanted to rape anyone. Never had the impulse. So why was I feeling like I was being lumped in with those who were, or who took a cavalier attitude about rape, or even made rape jokes to begin with? Why did I feel some massive, undeserved sense of injustice about my place in this whole controversy?
The answer to that is in the first incorrect assumption. The one that says there's no a "rape culture" in this country. How can there be? I've never wanted to rape anyone.
Do you see the illogic in that leap? I didn't at first. Missed it completely. So let's look at some similar examples:
Just because you 100% believe that comedians don't write their own jokes doesn't make it so. And making the leap from your evidence-free belief to dismissing comedians who complain about joke theft is willful ignorance on your part, invoked for your own comfort. Same way with heckling. Just because you 100% feel that a show wherein a heckler disrupted the evening was better than one that didn't have that disruption does not make it the truth. And to make the leap from your own personal memory to insisting that comedians feel the same way that you do is indefensible horseshit.
And just because I find rape disgusting, and have never had that impulse, doesn't mean I can make a leap into the minds of women and dismiss how they feel day to day, moment to moment, in ways both blatant and subtle, from other men, and the way the media represents the world they live in, and from what they hear in songs, see in movies, and witness on stage in a comedy club.
There is a collective consciousness that can detect the presence (and approach) of something good or bad, in society or the world, before any hard "evidence" exists. It's happening now with the concept of "rape culture." Which, by the way, isn't a concept. It's a reality. I'm just not the one who's going to bring it into focus. But I've read enough viewpoints, and spoken to enough of my female friends (comedians and non-comedians) to know it isn't some vaporous hysteria, some false meme or convenient catch-phrase.
I'm a comedian. I value and love what I do. And I value and love the fact that this sort of furious debate is going on about the art form I've decided to spend my life pursuing. If it wasn't, it would mean all of the joke thief defenders and heckler supporters are right, that stand-up comedy is some low, disposable form of carnival distraction, a party trick anyone can do. It's obviously not. This debate proves it. And I don't want to be on the side of the debate that only argues from its own limited experience. And I don't need the sense memory of an actor, or a degree from Columbia, or a moody, desert god to tell me that.
I'm a man. I get to be wrong. And I get to change.
Thanks for this Patton.