I met Mary about six or seven years ago when we started to work together at the Women's Media Center. She edited me everyday. She was also the person who encouraged me and edited the longer pieces that I wrote for the Women's Media Center when I was just starting to think about how to frame the issues on my blog. She made me understand how important an editor was. Many bloggers don't have editors and we all suffer for it. When Mary edited anything I wrote, it was so much better. She was able to take my words and thoughts and make them sound professional.
When I wrote the introduction for my book In Her Voice: Women Directors Talk Directing the only person I wanted to edit it was Mary Thom. She gave of herself freely and quickly and was an enormous help. I still remember when I got the email back from her telling me that she thought it worked. It was a huge relief because I knew that if Mary said it flowed, it flowed.
I was very much looking forward to seeing Mary in a couple of weeks at an event to celebrate the publication of In Her Voice. When I sent her the invitation she was one of the first to respond and sent me an email about how happy and proud she was that I got the book done.
She was a true and wonderful collaborator and I will miss her greatly.